Tips On Getting That Magic In Your Relationship
Imagine that you have dated a very special person to you for a few months and you assume that he feels the same soul mate type connection that you do. Then you bring up the question about the future of your relationship and he stalls and says nothing. You feel as though you have brought up a taboo subject because he's pulled back. You wonder if he will ever be ready to do the big 'c' word.
The answer really isn't magical, although the results may seem that way. Often times, the man is just as concerned about being rejected or refused as you are. There may be other issues that could be holding him back, perhaps even some that you really should know about before saying "yes". Here are some tips to weave your own "spell" to take the relationship to the next level.
1. Pick the right time - This is one of the most important things to think about. Pick a time when you are both in a good mood and the place is quiet with no distracting energy around either of you like TV or a football game. Then ask him if he is interested in a committed relationship with you.
2. Seeing is believing and vice versa - Sometimes the non-verbal messages we receive carry more information that those filled with words. When the two of you are together pay attention to his body language. If you notice that he seems to physically pull back whenever the "c" word comes up, don't be afraid to ask him how he feels. On the other end of the spectrum, if he seems to be opening up his "space" to include you more and more, tell him how good that feels and how nice it would be if it were for a longer period of time.
3. Owning your feelings - This is your best opportunity to let him know how much you really value him in this relationship and what he means to you. This may calm down any stress he has about the subject of commitment and chances are he will tell you his truth if you tell him yours.
4. The time is right - Even if it turns out that he is unready, unwilling or unable to give you the answer you were hoping for, at the very least, you can make a realistic decision whether to stay with things as they are or move on to find that special spiritual link that your heart calls for.
Once you have the feelings that he is Mr. Right and he has told you how much you mean to him, it feels like a magical connection. Committing to another person and vice versa, can almost feel like the earth revolving around the sun - truly magical.
The answer really isn't magical, although the results may seem that way. Often times, the man is just as concerned about being rejected or refused as you are. There may be other issues that could be holding him back, perhaps even some that you really should know about before saying "yes". Here are some tips to weave your own "spell" to take the relationship to the next level.
1. Pick the right time - This is one of the most important things to think about. Pick a time when you are both in a good mood and the place is quiet with no distracting energy around either of you like TV or a football game. Then ask him if he is interested in a committed relationship with you.
2. Seeing is believing and vice versa - Sometimes the non-verbal messages we receive carry more information that those filled with words. When the two of you are together pay attention to his body language. If you notice that he seems to physically pull back whenever the "c" word comes up, don't be afraid to ask him how he feels. On the other end of the spectrum, if he seems to be opening up his "space" to include you more and more, tell him how good that feels and how nice it would be if it were for a longer period of time.
3. Owning your feelings - This is your best opportunity to let him know how much you really value him in this relationship and what he means to you. This may calm down any stress he has about the subject of commitment and chances are he will tell you his truth if you tell him yours.
4. The time is right - Even if it turns out that he is unready, unwilling or unable to give you the answer you were hoping for, at the very least, you can make a realistic decision whether to stay with things as they are or move on to find that special spiritual link that your heart calls for.
Once you have the feelings that he is Mr. Right and he has told you how much you mean to him, it feels like a magical connection. Committing to another person and vice versa, can almost feel like the earth revolving around the sun - truly magical.
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